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The P Spot
Chapter 2
So how do you translate this information into a mind blowing orgasms
for your sweetie? First you've got to develop an understanding of
the anatomy. The prostate lies directly over the perineum, the space
between the anus and the back of the testicles. If you or your partner
are at all squeamish about your playing proctologist and exploring
the neither regions of his lower rectum, then the good news is that
you can stimulate this spot by applying pressure to this area outside
the body. Just find that middle point and along that inch and a
half space behind his testicles and press firmly with your thumb.
It would help the process considerably, if you happen to stimulate
his penis before, during and after you go for the serious acupressure
on his perineum. It just makes things go much smoother, and the
resulting lubrication and increased blood flow to increase swell
the prostate, and let you reach the P Spot from behind his testicles.
Besides, even the most novice of sexual animals will realize that
most men will sit still through your geographical navigation's if
their penis is getting even some attention.
Once you've mastered the external pressure, and you've got short,
clean
fingernails, you can gear up to some gentle, internal massaging.
The anus is full of nerve endings, and provided you are sensitive
to the delicate nature of rectal tissue, most men find that this
kind of anal play can take love making into the WOW zone. From here
finding the P Spot is pretty straight forward. After a short exploration,
the walnut-like structure of the prostate will be apparent. Move
it gently back and forth and bingo, the sensations he's been experiencing
from your ongoing penis manipulations should be very much enhanced.
One final suggestion, for the try-this-at-home instruction manual,
is to consider using a slender vibrators to do your work for you.
The sphincter muscle at the opening of the anus is strong, and the
resulting pressure on your finger can be significant after awhile.
These vibrators, as are small, narrow and powerful, and can really
enhance his orgasm.
The experience of P Spot stimulation feels "different"
as I've heard it described by the men I've interviewed. It feels
great, it feels sexual, but it doesn't feel like a run-of-the-mill
penis orgasm. The same description is often heard by women describing
the difference between clitoral and G Spot orgasms. It's fun, and
if your partner can relax and trust your inquisitive nature to figure
out to how to have him singing a chorus of Hallelujah's with a little
P Spot play, then your reputation as a great lover is well on it's
way to being cemented.
The variety in experiences with the P Spot arises because we are
talking about men and not toaster ovens. This description should
be a close but not a perfect fit for most men. It's a given that
there is some variation for each individual partner you may try
this out on. As well, don't be disappointed that the earth doesn't
move for your lover the first time you engage the P Spot. It takes
practice, communication, and loads of foreplay to hit all the right
buttons. So unfortunately (or rather fortunately), being
known as a Sex Goddess takes "hands on training" rather
than clicking your heels together, befriending a genie, or wishing
on a star. That being said however, a little elbow grease (or at
least lube), and map of the P Spot, may be all the magic you really
need.
A final thought about the P Spot may be moderation. You aren't
expected to try it each and every time you wind up horizontal with
your mate, but it's a nice thing to add to your repertoire. Most
of those aforementioned women's magazines describe a good lover
as using your imagination, taking initiative, and being spontaneous.
Initiating a search for your partner's P Spot takes in all these
elements and should have your lover being much more appreciative
of you new found skills.
For an excellent book (despite the extremely cheesy cover) which has some in depth coverage on prostate stimulation, as well as pretty much everything else sexual, check out:
The Guide to Getting It On
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